I am a crazy fangirl. This blog will be dedicated to all my random ships and fandoms. This includes but is not limited to:
-Teen Wolf
-Sherlock
-Supernatural
-The Avengers
-Suits
-Young Avengers
-Torchwood
-Doctor Who
-Young Justice
-Legend of Korra
-Common Law
-and the ships therein

Have fun exploring!

 

Here’s a situation every woman is familiar with: some guy she knows, perhaps a casual acquaintance, perhaps just some dude at the bus stop, is obviously infatuated with her. He’s making conversation, he’s giving her the eye. She doesn’t like him. She doesn’t want to talk to him. She doesn’t want him near her. He is freaking her out. She could disobey the rules, and tell him to GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM HER, and continue screaming GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME every time he tries to step closer, or speak to her again. And then he will be all, “I was just talking to you! WTF!” and everybody else will be all, “Yeah, seriously, why’d you freak out at a guy just talking to you?” and refuse to offer the support she needs to be safe from dude. Or, the guy might become hostile, violent even. Ladies, you’ve seen that look, the “bitch can’t ignore me” look. It’s a source of constant confusion, as soon as you start budding breasts, that the man who just a moment ago told you how pretty you are is now calling you a stupid ugly whore, all because you didn’t get in his car.

OR

You could follow the rules. You could flirt back a little, look meek, not talk, not move away. You might have to put up with a lot more talking, you might have to put up with him trying to ask you out to lunch every day, you might even have to go out to lunch with him. You might have to deal with him copping a feel. But he won’t turn violent on you, and neither will the spectators who have watched him browbeat you into a frightened and flirtatious corner.

So we learn the rules will protect us. We learn that, when we step out of line, somebody around us might very well turn crazy. Might hurt us. And we won’t be defended by onlookers, who think we’ve provoked the crazy somehow. So, having your ass grabbed at the bus stop, having to go out to dinner with a guy you fucking can’t stand, maybe even having to fuck him once or twice, it’s a small sacrifice to avoid being ostracized, insulted, verbally abused, and possibly physically assaulted.

It’s a rude fucking awakening when a woman gets raped, and follows the rules she has been taught her whole life — doesn’t refuse to talk, doesn’t refuse to flirt, doesn’t walk away ignoring him, doesn’t hit, doesn’t scream, doesn’t fight, doesn’t raise her voice, doesn’t deny she liked kissing — and finds out after that she is now to blame for the rape. She followed the rules. The rules that were supposed to keep the rape from happening. The rules that would keep her from being fair game for verbal and physical abuse. Breaking the rules is supposed to result in punishment, not following them. For every time she lowered her voice, let go of a boundary, didn’t move away, let her needs be conveniently misinterpreted, and was given positive reinforcement and a place in society, she is now being told that all that was wrong, this one time, and she should have known that, duh.

For anybody who has ever watched the gendered social interactions of women — watched a woman get browbeaten into accepting attention she doesn’t want, watched a woman get interrupted while speaking, watched a woman deny she is upset at being insulted in public, watched a woman get grabbed because of what she was wearing, watched a woman stop arguing — and said and done nothing, you never have the right to ever ask, “Why didn’t she fight back?”

She didn’t fight back because you told her not to. Ever. Ever. You told her that was okay, and necessary, and right.

You didn’t give her a caveat. You didn’t say, “Unless…” You said, “Good for you, shutting up and backing down 99% of the time. Too bad that 1% of the time makes you a fucking whore who deserved it.”

Nobody obtains the superpower to behave dramatically differently during a frightening confrontation. Women will behave the same way they have been taught to behave in all social, professional, and sexual interactions. And they will be pretty goddamned surprised to come out the other end and find out that means they can legally be raped at any time, by just about anybody.

50shadesofhomosexuals:

landofrosesandfire:

h31r0fd00m:

P S FUCKING A
SEE THIS NAIL POLISH? YOU’VE PROBABLY SEEN IT IN HOT TOPIC.
STOP USING IT.
THIS SHIT CONTAINS LEAD
I’M PRETTY SURE THEY STOPPED SELLING IT (I CAN’T FIND IT ON THEIR SITE) BUT IN CASE YOU DO OWN SOME OF THIS STUFF (IT’S USUALLY CHEAP OR ON SALE).
DON’T USE IT.
LEAD
I WAS BITING MY NAILS WHEN I FOUND THIS OUT MONTHS AGO
JUST STOP

JESUS FUCK
SIGNAL BOOST

I HAVE SOME OF THIS SO I GUESS I NEED TO GET RID OF IT.THAT EXPLAINS WHY IT WAS ON SALE.

50shadesofhomosexuals:

landofrosesandfire:

h31r0fd00m:

P S FUCKING A

SEE THIS NAIL POLISH? YOU’VE PROBABLY SEEN IT IN HOT TOPIC.

STOP USING IT.

THIS SHIT CONTAINS LEAD

I’M PRETTY SURE THEY STOPPED SELLING IT (I CAN’T FIND IT ON THEIR SITE) BUT IN CASE YOU DO OWN SOME OF THIS STUFF (IT’S USUALLY CHEAP OR ON SALE).

DON’T USE IT.

LEAD

I WAS BITING MY NAILS WHEN I FOUND THIS OUT MONTHS AGO

JUST STOP

JESUS FUCK

SIGNAL BOOST

I HAVE SOME OF THIS SO I GUESS I NEED TO GET RID OF IT.
THAT EXPLAINS WHY IT WAS ON SALE.

rainbowsfireworks:

221b-stark-tower:

buenos-tardis-mishamigos:

caspock:

fwips:

mistresscrowley:

babyinanovercoat:


I’m sorry but how the fuck did this photo even happen
the photographer must have been like a fangirl
she would’ve been like
okay uh yeah jensen take off your shirt
now could you like… uh… yeah just unbutton your pants
yeah that’s good
make sure that fly is nice and open
and now could you just lie down on the hood of the car
yeah
like that
but put your arms out now
okay perfect
perfect
perfect





i fixed it for you guys


Oh. My. Chuck.

I JUST LOVE THIS FANDOM SO MUCH JESUS FUCKING CHRIST MOVE OVER, LUCIFER IS TAKING THE WHEEL.

I’m not even in this fandom but JFC

oh

rainbowsfireworks:

221b-stark-tower:

buenos-tardis-mishamigos:

caspock:

fwips:

mistresscrowley:

babyinanovercoat:

  • I’m sorry but how the fuck did this photo even happen
  • the photographer must have been like a fangirl
  • she would’ve been like
  • okay uh yeah jensen take off your shirt
  • now could you like… uh… yeah just unbutton your pants
  • yeah that’s good
  • make sure that fly is nice and open
  • and now could you just lie down on the hood of the car
  • yeah
  • like that
  • but put your arms out now
  • okay perfect
  • perfect
  • perfect

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i fixed it for you guys

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Oh. My. Chuck.

I JUST LOVE THIS FANDOM SO MUCH JESUS FUCKING CHRIST MOVE OVER, LUCIFER IS TAKING THE WHEEL.

I’m not even in this fandom but JFC

oh

(Source: kanerd)

megaparsecs:

borgevino:

i had the sudden and shocking realization this morning that some people have never heard the ‘oh where is my hairbrush’ song and don’t automatically sing it in their heads when they’re looking for something

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GUISE STOP FOR A SEC THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT

mydarlingangelgabriel:

semiautomaticheart:

theshotabanana:

seraphflonne:

THE CISPA PETITION HAS 12 DAYS LEFT AND IT ONLY HAS 20K SIGNATURES OH MY GOD PEOPLE FUCKING SIGN AND SIGNAL BOOST IT DO YOU NOT KNOW HOW VITAL THIS IS gnjsfkld.asl

To sum things up, if this doesn’t get enough signatures, tumblr is GONE.

#like two peope reblogged this from me #why do the rest of you hate happiness

COME ON PEOPLE THIS IS OUR HOME WE CAN’T LOSE IT

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fivetail:

samcoxstudio:

luginub:

What I look for in a girl:

  • Water, 35 litres
  • Carbon, 20 kilograms
  • Ammonia, 4 litres
  • Lime, 1.5 kilograms
  • Phosphorus, 800 grams
  • Salt, 250 grams
  • Saltpeter, 100 grams
  • Sulfur, 80 grams
  • Fluorine, 7.5 grams
  • Iron, 5 grams
  • Silicon, 3 grams
  • Trace amounts of 15 other elements

It’d probably cost you like an arm and a leg for this deal

That is not okay.

(Source: vasuki)

anaisdoki:

GiveawayTime!!
 ヾ(。◕ฺ∀◕ฺ)ノ Good luck !!
Rules
*Likes and reblogs count, Reblog as many times you want.* You don’t have to be following me* I will ship internationally* Have your ask box open!* Giveaway ends April 5

anaisdoki:

GiveawayTime!!

 ヾ(。◕ฺ∀◕ฺ)ノ Good luck !!

Rules

*Likes and reblogs count, Reblog as many times you want.
* You don’t have to be following me
* I will ship internationally
* Have your ask box open!
* Giveaway ends April 5

conventioncosplayproblems:

chauvinistsushi:

theselfmademen:

This is a boa constrictor, it’s a snake (duh). The way it kills it’s prey is by wrapping itself around it and then squeezing tighter when the victim breathes out. A Boa and an Ace bandage have that in common… An ace bandage is designed to apply pressure to a twisted ankle or wrist. Much like a snake, its function is to hold a body part as tightly as it can and when this method is used in binding, the results can be very dangerous. While it’s elasticity and cheap price may be appealing for those in need of a binder, there is no healthy and safe way to bind using an ace bandage. Duct tape is another resource many Transguys turn to. This is also very dangerous. In order to get duct tape to produce the desired ‘flat’ appearance, it would have to be extremely tight. When your lungs can’t naturally fill to a normal capacity your body is receiving less oxygen than it should and long term could cause minor brain damage and fatigue. Reoccurring binding sessions can even leave you bruised. Showing images of ftms using ace bandages to bind has become an iconic form of gender expression. While using it in art to represent binding may occur all over the interwebs, this is NOT a safe way to bind and alternative methods should be used when possible. Please check out some of our website articles on the topic:
Taking care of your binder
The 10 Binding Commandments by Zachary
Hudson’s FTM Guide: To Binding

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This also goes for cosplay guys!

conventioncosplayproblems:

chauvinistsushi:

theselfmademen:

This is a boa constrictor, it’s a snake (duh). The way it kills it’s prey is by wrapping itself around it and then squeezing tighter when the victim breathes out. A Boa and an Ace bandage have that in common… An ace bandage is designed to apply pressure to a twisted ankle or wrist. Much like a snake, its function is to hold a body part as tightly as it can and when this method is used in binding, the results can be very dangerous. While it’s elasticity and cheap price may be appealing for those in need of a binder, there is no healthy and safe way to bind using an ace bandage. 

Duct tape is another resource many Transguys turn to. This is also very dangerous. In order to get duct tape to produce the desired ‘flat’ appearance, it would have to be extremely tight. When your lungs can’t naturally fill to a normal capacity your body is receiving less oxygen than it should and long term could cause minor brain damage and fatigue. Reoccurring binding sessions can even leave you bruised. 

Showing images of ftms using ace bandages to bind has become an iconic form of gender expression. While using it in art to represent binding may occur all over the interwebs, this is NOT a safe way to bind and alternative methods should be used when possible. 

Please check out some of our website articles on the topic:

boost

This also goes for cosplay guys!

Apparently I was referred to some pageant thing? I am confused? I am not nor have I ever been a pageant girl? Not even when I was little and actually cute? I am not an attractive human being? I am a little chubby child?

So confuzzled.

It sucks when someone you have feelings for doesn’t share those feelings; it happens to women all the time, too. We hear “I just want to be friends” and “you’re like one of the guys” and “you’re like a sister to me” just as often. But you’ll never hear a woman complain that guys just don’t appreciate a Nice Girl because we’re taught it’s our own fucking fault when we’re rejected—we aren’t pretty enough or thin enough or sexy enough, we weren’t sexual enough or were too sexual, we put out too much or too little or too soon or not soon enough, we didn’t wear our hair the right way or our skirt the right length, we’re “too tomboyish” or “too butch” or “too feminine”, or we’re “not their type”, or we’re otherwise not good enough in various ways to entice the man to grace us with his affection.

But when we’re not interested in someone, we’re vilified. We’re the bitch that lead them on, the bitch who let them buy us dinner but didn’t want to date them, the bitch who doesn’t appreciate a nice guy, the bitch they were nice to and then got nothing in return from.

And, frankly, fuck those people. Showing interest in me, being friendly with me, getting close to me, or eating a meal with me (even if they paid for it) doesn’t obligate me to open my heart or my legs. And anyone who doesn’t appreciate my friendship sure as hell doesn’t deserve my love or my pussy.